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< Always > < The Broken H > < No Going Home > < My Fair Captain > < The Tin Star > < Caught Running > M. L. Rhodes




 price: 1600
 Amber Quill Press, LLC(2007-10-25)
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(Great Character)

(Always- A Joyfully Recommended Title)

(Always by M. L. Rhodes)

(Always by M.L. Rhodes)

(Intensely emotional, compelling, sexually charged. Love this one from Rhodes.)
I really enjoyed this book, especially the first half. That part was pure fun reading. The second part was wonderful in the beginning, but it seemed to go off the believability track and merge into erotic fantasy, but there's nothing wrong with that. It just wasn't reality any longer, but after all this is fiction, and it's supposed to go a little wild. I finished it very quickly because the author did make you care about both men. You could tell she loved them as well. They were two very complete characters in their descriptions and personality. I felt as if I knew them. I will definitely be picking up another book from this author.
Will McLaren has secretly loved his outgoing, daring, popular best friend Ethan Gallagher for years. Shy, studious Will believes he'll ruin their friendship if he says anything, though, so he keeps his secret. On the night of his sister's wedding, the secret slips out. Then, after only one incredible night together, Ethan leaves and doesn't come back.

Ethan and Will both had secrets, but Ethan's were serious enough to keep him away for three years. After a terrible ordeal, he's finally free to return to the man he's always loved--but Will feels angry and betrayed at his long absence. Will Ethan be able to show his best friend how much he loves him, or will their secrets be too much to overcome?

Simply put, Never Let Go is an incredible book. M.L. Rhodes's deep characterization made it easy to care about both Will and Ethan, and I was very moved by their deep love for each other. They face serious obstacles in the story, but I never stopped rooting for them. Each step in the story brought me closer to the characters. I laughed, cried, and rejoiced right along with them as the book unfolded. One of the best things about the story was the way Will and Ethan grew and changed. Ethan begins the story self-assured and outgoing, but after his ordeal emerges much different. Will starts out shy and biddable. Near the end, they had somewhat of a role-reversal, and yet they were still essentially the same men they had been before--just with more facets. This is my first book by Ms. Rhodes, but it certainly won't be my last! Never Let Go is a sweet, hot, vastly enjoyable story of finding love, losing it, and finding it again. I definitely recommend this book. It will leave you believing in second chances.

Cassie
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M. L. Rhodes, is an excellent author of male gay romance novels. I have to admit there are very few writers that I admire as much as I do M. L. Rhodes. Always, is a wonderful love story that pulls at the heart strings. The only bad part was the hostage situation. Other wise, the book is an excellent read, and it makes you laugh and cry. The two main characters, both male, struggle to come to terms with their relationship. The book is actually in two parts. The first part is strickly five stars, but I can only give four stars to the second part. I highly recommend this book to anyone who loves a good gay romance. warning there is some man on man sex, and there is a bit of s/m.
Never Let Go by M.L. Rhodes
Will and Ethan are highschool mate friends. For all the years of the school they were inseparable, then Ethan went far away for college but they remained best friends and sometimes Ethan turned back home to see Will. And for Will was pain and pleasure cause Will was deeply in love with his friend and had no courage to admit it, especially not to Ethan who seemed to have plenty of women around him.

But one night, maybe thanks to some much drinks, Will and Ethan confess thier mutual feelings, and make passionate love. Will also declares his love to Ethan. But the morning after, Ethan has to leave in a hurry, and can't explain to Will why and where and doesn't know when he will be back. He only asks to Will to never let go him and his love for him.

But Ethan can return only three years after, without any words in between, and Will has not maintain his promise, he has let go and he has moved on, try to find someone else... but this is not true, cause his love for Ethan is not dead and flares to new life when his lover is again near him. But Ethan is not the same man he was when he has left, and Will has to change to deal with this new man.

The plot is simple and somewhat cosy: the external world is only hint and never really break into this novel. Will and Ethan are first friends and then lovers, and this allow them to be able to trust themself without much words to explain the past. If not for the friendship between then, it will really impossible to believe true Will's behaviour, when hungry will turn suddenly in hunger for his lover's soul and body.

Hearts&Bones by M.L. Rhodes
From best friend to lover the passage is not always easy, but Will and Ethan, the same couple of Never Let Go seem to have chosen the right path.

Ethan, ex secret agent and very commanding man, turns in a man to be nurse by Will. He is not weak, but he needs his man to be strong and protective, to shut out all the bad memories haunting him. And he needs also to accomadate himself to a live made of 9.00 to 5.00 work and domestic peace.

Will is tender and patient, he lets Ethan adjust himself to the new life, and he looks at him like a dream come true: the love of all his life is in the end near him, and it seems not true... And in fact the past is not so willing to be forgotten.

A good sequel to Never Let Go, actually the real story: Never Let Go introduces to us Will and Ethan, but only in Hearts&Bones you can see how their relationship evolves. In Hearts&Bones Ethan is the main character and we have the chance to understand him better: Will is the reason of all his life and his salvation. The story is a good mix of romance and thriller, with some unexpected twists. The plot is well planned and as realistic as can be a romantic novel.

Rhodes has given us two appealing and memorable characters in Ethan and Will, their story told in 2 novellas which were released a few months apart. Very pleased that AmberQuill has combined the 2 e-books in print, as this one is for keeps.

Ethan's and Will's story is compellingly written, emotionally stirring and stunning in its intensity and passion, their sex ranging from lovingly tender to sizzingly hot BDSM.

"Never let go", the first novella, is beautifully written. Ethan and Will are best friends since high school, secretly in love with each other yet never dare to declare it as afraid the other would be repelled by it. Since embarking on their own career, they hardly meet up as Ethan's supposely high flying career takes him around the world. Only nothing is as it seems. They finally consummate their love 16 years later, and just as Will thinks all is well, Ethan vanishes from his life only this time it seems for good. Three years later, Ethan appears at Will's door step, a "broken" man. Thereon, their reunion is one emotional ride, bittersweet and deeply touching.

I thought it will be hard to measure up to the first novella but Rhodes proves me wrong. "Hearts and Bones" is just as compellingly written and powerfully emotional as their brief domestic bliss is disrupted by Jackson, a psychotic sadist from Ethan's past. The lovers are held captive and their torment in the hands of this sadist who is into heavy BDSM have me at the edge. These parts are not easy to read as Jackson threatens each man with the life of the other. Rhodes has done a marvelous job here exploring the depth of each man's feelings for the other. Ethan's mind torture is heart wrenching as his horrible past is used against him. BDSM is heavy here, the sex sizzling erotic. The intense moment when the lovers manage to turn the table on their tormentor have me holding my breath. There is a bit of comic relief towards the end when one unlikely hero comes to their rescue. The only flaw in this novella is Rhodes seems to make light of the injuries each man sustains during his captivity. A flaw easy to overlook as the lovers' gripping story have me spellbound until the end.

I love both characters. Ethan seems a man of the world, strong and confident. But he is one vulnerable and haunted man, his discovery of a side of himself startling. Will is equally appealing with his solid quiet strength, the pillar in their relationship, and he is of course not quite the gentleman "geek" he appears. Strongly recommended to all M/M romance fan out there.

From award-winning and best-selling gay-fiction author M.L. Rhodes...

Now in paperback,Alwayscombines the first two highly acclaimed volumes in the emotional and explosively erotic man-love story of Will McLaren and Ethan Gallagher.Never Let Go...
For years Will McClaren and Ethan Gallagher hid their deepest desires from one another, each thinking the other was straight, both of them too afraid of shattering their friendship to admit their real feelings. Then, in a vulnerable moment, they discover the truth and give themselves over to an explosive passion that will forever alter their relationship. But after just one night together, Ethan's secret life interferes and the two are torn apart for three long years. When at last Ethan returns, only a shell of the vibrant man Will once knew, and mysteriously evasive about where he's been, can the two men overcome years of deceptions and tragic truths in order to heal their friendship and perhaps find the kind of love that lasts a lifetime?

Hearts&Bones...
Finally a couple in every way, Will and Ethan are savoring the pleasures of being together at last. But only a few short weeks into domestic bliss, their hard-won peace and contentment is put to the test. Someone from Ethan's dark and dangerous past has returned to settle a vindictive score, luring the lovers into a deadly game. When Will's caught in the crossfire and his very life is at stake, will Ethan be strong enough to overcome his debilitating fears and face down his old enemy? Or will this shadow from his past destroy the only man he's ever loved?

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< Always > < The Broken H > < No Going Home > < My Fair Captain > < The Tin Star > freaks



< The Lies That Bind > < Worth Every Step > < Paybacks > < Night Call > < Run to Me > < Thief of Always > Susan X Meagher

 price: 512
 Brisk Press
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Erin Delancy, a young, callow physician, moves back to her small town in New Hampshire to take over for her mentor. She assumes that everything will be much like it was when she left for school almost 10 years ago. But subtle changes have occurred that barely reach her consciousness, given her proclivity for accepting things as they are.

A feisty attorney passes through town one winter morning and her brief visit sends off a series of changes that eventually affects not only the young doctor, but the entire town.

Katie Quinn looks, at first glance, to be the antithesis of the placid doctor. Katie is excitable, chatty and adventurous, with a touch of the profane thrown in for spice. Erin steadfastly refuses to even utter a mild oath, she's rarely left New England, and she's the paragon of respectful behavior. But the pair fall slowly and inexorably into love.

Falling in love is often the end of the story, but there are a myriad of complications in this small town that work against their living happily ever after.

Erin is challenged to do several things she hates: think of her own needs before those of others and disappoint people who rely on her. Katie has her work cut out for her, also, but her challenges are almost the inverse of Erin's.

This tale is multi-layered and presents issues that aren't solved with a roll in the hay-- although rolling in the hay makes a lot of the trouble seem well worth it!

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< The Lies That Bind > < Worth Every Step > < Paybacks > < Night Call > < Run to Me > freaks


< Transgender Warriors : Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman > < Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue > < Stone Butch Blues: A Novel > < Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us > < Drag King Dreams > < GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary > Leslie Feinberg




 price: 848
 Beacon Press
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(The Joan Baez of trans)

(Transgender Warriors)

(The best text book I've ever read)

(Liberation Manifesto)

(A Wide-Ranging Informative Work)
Love or hate hir, Feinberg, like Joan Baez, raises the flag with the broadest possible coloring. Since when was subtlety required of agitprop? Sure, the Lady Skimmington citation is utopian; on the other hand, Feinberg (unlike almost every feminist) actually gets Engels, so right on. Streamlined, overdetermined? All the better, I say. Hey, Baez's greatest artistic moment was announcing (on the Johnny Carson Show!) her withholding of taxes to protest Vietnam; her LPs were secondary. That's the spirit in which I took this book. In the Top 5 of TG texts.

Although the sections of this book dealing with contemporary issues are reasonably accurate, many historians have pointed out that the history section desperately needed to have been vetted by someone who studies the subject.
Among the numerous errors, the section on Joan of Arc contains more than the usual quota:
1) The author was unaware of a number of basic points concerning the cross-dressing issue. Eyewitness accounts contain quotations from Joan herself stating that she continued wearing a specific type of soldiers' clothing in prison because its securely-fastened pants and tunic offered the only protection she had against attempted rape - the Condemnation transcript itself admits that this clothing was secured with dozens of cords attaching both layers of pants to the tunic. Her motive was necessity, as many of the tribunal members later confirmed. These men also confirmed that she was induced into a "relapse" by a regimen of increased rape attempts followed by the simple expedient of leaving her nothing else to wear but the male outfit. These are basic points which were overlooked by this book, whose version has little in common with history.
2) She was not a pagan. Eyewitness accounts prove this, as do extant letters which Joan dictated to scribes during her military campaigns: these contain phrases such as "King Jesus, King of Heaven and of all the world, my rightful and sovereign Lord". The names "Jesus, Mary" generally serve as the heading. One letter, dated 23 March 1430, orders a group called the Hussites to "return to the Catholic faith" or else she will lead a crusading army against them. Her trial, as we know from English government records and the later statements of the tribunal members, was deliberately rigged by the English in order to convict her for the purposes of revenge, rather than from a sincere belief that she held heretical views.
3) The Marxist and Feminist issues are anachronisms which additionally involve some ironies. Her stated and accomplished goal, after all, was to place her king on his throne, not to overthrow either the aristocracy nor the patriarchy. None of her many recorded statements imply feminist beliefs, nor anything equivalent to Marxism.

There are other books which document genuine cases of transgenderism in history. This is not one of them, and this portion of the book regrettably does a disservice to a field which has far too often been harmed by invalid or poor scholarship.

This book was refreshingly factual and frank. I was blown away by what I read about the history of the trans person - especially Joan of Arc! I am a big fan of this book because it has provided me with enough valuable backup material for my thesis. I have searched high and low for supporting quotes such as those found in Feinberg's writing. BUY THIS BOOK - it will end up like mine, with notes written all over every page and lots of folded pages, kept next to the bed for reading regularly.
This is a manifesto of transgender liberation. It will be remembered and read for many years to come. As a LGBT person, it really touched me. Some societies have honored us and some have murdered us. It is time for us to rise up and say enough. I will re-read this book.
Leslie Feinberg has created a fascinating compilation of transgender history.

This book "works" in that it engages the reader and stimulates thought, questioning and debate. Even the highly negative reviews that appear here reinforce this. The review authors are inflamed by a book of substance, one which presents a consistent theoretical underpinning as it provides a wealth of historical data.

A lot of political statements are made on all sides about the natural order of things. Look at the debate over same-sex marriage in which the debate is framed in terms of traditional values.

Feinberg, in this work, does the field of gender studies a great service in expanding our awareness of just how much diversity is historically encompassed in our common tradition.

Read this book, then reflect, then challenge both it and yourself.
Leslie Feinberg has been a leader in the transgender rights movement as long as such a movement has existed. This book is both deeply personal and widely researched. Feinberg examines perceptions of the body, the status of clothing, and the structures of societies that welcome or are threatened by gender variance. The portrait gallery that closes the book contains photographs and capsule biographies of contemporary transgendered people.
With a New Afterword by the Author

In this fascinating, personal journey hrough history, Leslie Feinberg uncovers persuasive evidence that there have always been people who crossed the cultural boundaries of gender. Transgender Warriors is an eye-opening jaunt through the history of gender expression and a powerful testament to the rebellious spirit.

Rerations
< Transgender Warriors : Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman > < Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue > < Stone Butch Blues: A Novel > < Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us > < Drag King Dreams > freaks



< The Mammary Plays : How I Learned to Drive and The Mineola Twins > < The Baltimore Waltz and Other Plays > < The Clean House and Other Plays > < Sarah Kane: Complete Plays > < Topdog/underdog > < Machinal (Royal National Theatre) > Paula Vogel




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(Two of the best plays I've read)

(Two are better than one)

(Funny stories about gender and politics)

(Vogel's Disquieting Plays)

(Gives a clear picture of sexual abuse)
Paula Vogel is a talented playwright with an amazing voice and freshness. These plays are two of the most interesting I've read; very original, substantive, and entertaining. Not for the faint at heart. Highly Recommended.
This volume of two Paula Vogel plays is a very fascinating and valuable work. How I Learned to Drive deals with a taboo topic in literature and in most of society - familial sexual abuse. The lives of Li'l Bit and her Uncle Peck are displayed with a coy frankness that warrants a couple of reads to more fully understand. As the story unfolds, the readers find themselves flopping between one character and the other. You're never really sure who is abusing who.

The Mineola Twins is a very fine social satire of alternate lifestyles and obsession with power. The quirkiness of the characters and some of the absurd situations provide an extremely insightful and amusing view on Boomerism and society's interest in appearances.

Both plays are great reads - especially when taken in this one-two punch of a book. And, if you have a chance to see them on the stage, don't miss out.
I love these two plays. I can't wait untill I can see them performed
The two plays in this volume have been performed recently in New England, and were among the best new plays I've seen recently. Particularly, How I Learned to Drive, as performed by the American Repertory Theater, was funny, touching, disquieting, and completely absorbing. There's more in both of these plays than I could absorb seeing them only once, however. Without question, How I Learned to Drive, which presents two complex major characters and asks us to question who has the power in their relationship and who is the victim, is the richer play. But Vogel's satire on extremism in the poltics and life-styles of Baby-boomers, The Mineola Twins, is a fitting complement to How I Learned to Drive. In both plays Vogel succeeds in disquieting us, urging us to see past black and white judgements and to understand that life in the human family (both plays contain the refrain"family is family") is complicated by many cross-currents. Consider reading these plays, even if you've seen them. (In both plays I discovered essential details I'd misunderstood when I saw the plays on the stage.) If you missed the chance to see these plays, do read them, particularly How I Learned to Drive. This is more than a story about sexual abuse; it's an extreme example of what can be true in any family, though we may be slow to admit it--that those who hurt us may also give us much love. Perhaps one sign of Vogel's sense of perspective is that this play--about the grimmest of subjects, child abuse--is as funny, at times, as it is touching.
This play does a wonderful job of bringing to life a situation often avoided in literature: sexual abuse. The author, Paula Vogel, creates the character of Li'l Bit so clearly that the reader has no trouble identifying with her. Vogel also uses Peck, the infatuated uncle, as a foil character for Li'l Bit by creating him in such a manner that forces the reader to find fault easily in him. This leads the reader to the conclusion that Li'l Bit is innocent in the horrendous acts her uncle continuously performs with and on her, which is very true. Since the acts of sexual abuse began when she was only a small child, she has grown up with this most of her life. To her it seems normal what is going on between her and her uncle, but when she finally leaves and goes on to college, she realizes how wrong it really is and finally gains enough courage to tell her uncle to stop. It is courage like this that most people, females especially, can relate to, whether they have found it for themselves or are hoping to find it in the future. This play brings that courage to life for them and makes it seem that much more attainable.
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< The Mammary Plays : How I Learned to Drive and The Mineola Twins > < The Baltimore Waltz and Other Plays > < The Clean House and Other Plays > < Sarah Kane: Complete Plays > < Topdog/underdog > freaks



< Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity > < Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity > < GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary > < Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us > < That's Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation > < The Transgender Reader >




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 Seal Press
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(Just Who Are We?)

(A True Classic, Having Passed the Test of Time)

(A book every radical feminist and LGBTQI activist should read!)

(less like jane, more like shaw)
Sycamore, Matt Bernstein. "Nobody Passes; Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity", Seal Press, 2006.

Just Who Are We?

Amos Lassen

Matt Bernstein Sycamore's anthology "Nobody Passes" has a diverse group of contributors. There is an Arab-American, transgender people, a former political prisoner, a sex worker and a host of others. Each gives his/her personal views on the evolving notions of gender identity, race, class and sexuality. Unlike many other anthologies, each essay is interesting and engaging. The quality of writing is high and many of the essays seem to be candid conversations as the authors discuss identity and community. If there is an overall theme here it is personal frustration in dealing with competing identities, We get no easy solutions but the book does allow us to reflect on the nature of just we are.
Dealing with "passing" in America is no easy job and "Nobody Passes" brings the contradictions of our complex identity ideas to the fore as we look at the major components of our identities. We are reminded that personal authenticity is integral to the concept of human liberation and allows us to imagine a world in which there is no need to pretend to be what we are not. It dares to ask id we can fight for the rights of those whose lives and experiences do not fit into our existing paradigms and whose professions are not redeeming morally. The contributors toss out the old, tired, familiar concepts of gender and identity and belonging and, in turn, give us a corrective to those narratives that have passed and still pass for social justice.
The entire concept of belonging is carefully examined by looking at the intersections of personality, identity, categorization and community. Countercultural norms and societal mores are challenged as the essays explore and criticize the different systems of power used in "passing". The book tries to eliminate the pressure to pass and in doing so it shoes the opportunities for transformation. We need not be confined by gender, race, sex or sexual preference. The book is, by its nature, controversial but it is also challenging. We are all passing to a certain degree and we need to know if there are options if for no other reason then to allow us to be who we really are.

Many months have gone by since the publication of this handsome and groundbreaking anthology, and is is time to declare it a true classic, having passed the test of time, the test truly exacting, the test that makes sense. The articles are still as timely and fresh as the day they were written. On the topic of passing, Mattilda (a/k/a Matt Bernstein Sycamore) is often eloquent, while stretching the topic into unexpected places to such a degree that the often elastic word comes to have little or no connection with the activity it once used to denote. In a way, this book is a more progressive and activist sequel to Brooke Kroeger's standard-bearing study PASSING: WHEN PEOPLE CAN"T BE WHO THEY ARE. "Passing"---the search to be what you're not---has gotten a bad press over the years, and Kroeger's book was one of the first to make us challenge our assumptions regarding this taboo topic.

In a similar vein, Mattilda assembles a cross section of profiles of young contemporary Americans, supplementing extensive interviews with expert comment. In the background of NOBODY PASSES we experience, as though a shadow had crossed the sun, the tragic tales of "passing" as that of Brandon Teena, the drifter whose murder became the basis for the film "Boys Don't Cry." Mattilda's book urges to ask the question, Aren't we all "passing" in one way or another? She musters scholarly and theoretical sources to support her speculations on identity and authenticity, and even dares to ask, why are we doing this? What market are we being offered up to satisfy?

Why is eros shaped the way it is? Why do some pass the test (the other test, not the test of time) and others fail, condemned into a limbo of "quirky" and deprived of the rights accorded other citizens with more money. Gender reassignment is just one way in which the staus quo is seized with a desire to smooth every bump away. Other prejudices must be battled daily. Some of the writers aren't as skilled as others, but that's just a fact of life and it doesn't mean they don't have fascinating things to say. "We're jaded, shaded, judged every day by everyone else's eyes, given pass or fail," writes Jen Cross, "a glance over, an examination." Unlearning oneself may be the only way out, that, and organized mass action. Your identity may not be the same as mine, but you will learn to respect mine, and your own, after you read through the challenging and controversial essays in this book.

As a queer man who because of my politics, my class, and my weight always felt like an outsider among other queer men, this radical anthology on passing and not passing really resonated with me. Like Gloria Anzaldua's groundbreaking feminist classic, "Borderlands/La Frontera: The New Mestiza", this book challenges us all to interrogate the gender, racial, and sexual orientation dichotomies that so confine us. By exploring the contradictions, ambiguities, and complexities of our individual and collective selves, this liberatory book encourages readers to move beyond identity politics and discover new frontiers. Whether you are a lesbian-identified gay man like myself, or a heterosexual queer, or a multiracial transgendered individual, or a white person of color, this fascinating book will help you embrace your multiplicities and live outside of the binary system. Activists who have read and enjoyed Mattilda's earlier anthology, "That's Revolting!" will not be disappointed with this book.
buy a copy of this book for yourself and any person you know that isnt simple minded. The other day i went out and bought two copies, one for me, and one for that kind of person, and both of us love it. Though i am not done yet, this book is one of my favorite non-fiction that i have read this year. Matt Bernstein Sycamore does not pretend to be an absolute authority on the topics of passing/not passing, and niether do any of the contributors, but they all hand down a great amount of knowledge to the reader about what it is like to grow up as an Okie, in a homohop group, someone who is into masochism, a disabled lesbian, and so on.

before coming across this book, i had never put much thought into the topics of passing and how they touch my life and others, and like Sycamores other books, this one definatly opened my eyes wider than before.

With Nobody Passes, Sycamore gives us a book with topics that aren't focused in on by the mainstream, and the underground.

Mattilda's past books have changed my life and how i look at things, and this one is already starting too, so i HIGHLY suggest picking this up and giving it a read.

Nobody Passesis a collection of essays that confronts and challenges the very notion of belonging. By examining the perilous intersections of identity, categorization, and community, contributors challenge societal mores and countercultural norms.Nobody Passesexplores and critiques the various systems of power seen (or not seen) in the act of“passing.” In a pass-fail situation, standards for acceptance may vary, but somebody always gets trampled on. This anthology seeks to eliminate the pressure to pass and thereby unearth the delicious and devastating opportunities for transformation that might create.
Mattilda, aka Matt Bernstein Sycamore, has a history of editing anthologies based on brazen nonconformity and gender defiance. Mattilda sets out to ask the question,“What lies are people forced to tell in order to gain acceptance as 'real'.” The answers are as varied as the life experiences of the writers who tackle this urgent and essential topic.

Rerations
< Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity > < Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity > < GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary > < Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us > < That's Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation > freaks


< Hard Hats: Gay Erotic Stories > < Cowboy Up > < Hot Cops: Gay Erotic Stories > < No Going Home > < Daddy's Little Boy > < My Fair Captain >




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Construction workers, plumbers, gardeners or any hard working man with a tool belt play a part in many gay male fantasies. In this steamy collection we take a ride to the top of a high rise under construction for a precarious steel beam encounter, go down in the belly of a dark steamy mine, hang out with some hunky sweaty landscapers and slip into the construction manager's office for a quickie. Wherever we go, you'll find sexy, men loving men who are turned on by more than their buddies' tools, in this world the hats are not the only thing that's hard.

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< Hard Hats: Gay Erotic Stories > < Cowboy Up > < Hot Cops: Gay Erotic Stories > < No Going Home > < Daddy's Little Boy > freaks


< Sapphic Slashers: Sex, Violence, and American Modernity > < Stone Butch Blues: A Novel > < Fighting for American Manhood: How Gender Politics Provoked the Spanish-American and Philippine-American Wars (Yale Historical Publications Series) > < Intersex and Identity: The Contested Self > < Plessy v. Ferguson > < Invisible Lives: The Erasure of Transsexual and Transgendered People > Lisa Duggan




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customer 's review
(teenage lesbian love and murder in Memphis)

(Two Great Subjects Wasted)
Many people know about the case of Lizzie Borden, the woman accused of killing her parents in the summer of 1892. But almost no one today knows of the similarly sensationalistic story of Alice Mitchell, who was accused of stabbing to death her teenage lesbian lover, Freda Ward earlier that year. I was less interested in the author's dense academic feminist psychological observations and interprettations and much more interested in the objective facts she gave of this most unusual love and murder story between two Memphis girls. The girls were once neighbors, but when Freda moved away, Alice's obsession became even stronger and she started beseiging her with letters. Freda's guardian, her married older sister Mrs Volkmar, refused to let her see Alice when she and her husband noticed Alice's obsessive attachment to Frede and of their secret lesbian"engagement"to each other, and plans for Alice to dress up as a man so they could have a secret wedding and marry. Insanely frustrated that her plans with Frede were destroyed, Alice decided that if she couldn't have Frede, no man would. One day she stalked Freda down and cut her throat. This story, and the subsequent trial, caused a nationwide sensation that all the newspapers picked up on.

David Rehak
author of"A Young Girl's Crimes"

Duggan seeks to combine the Memphis lynchings which launched the national career of Ida B. Wells and the sensational"sapphic slasher"murder of Freda Ward by Alice Mitchell. Both events occurred in Memphis in 1892, both should offer tremendous possibilities for exploring race and gender in fin de siecle America.

Unfortunately, Duggan cannot report or comment with any clarity or purpose. The book is a dense, indigestible mass of"post-modern"verbiage, laden with accounts of 'appropriated narratives,' 'priviliging,' 'othering,' etc. Especially quaint is the use of the word 'binary' as a noun.
On a winter day in 1892, in the broad daylight of downtown Memphis, Tennessee, a middle class woman named Alice Mitchell slashed the throat of her lover, Freda Ward, killing her instantly. Local, national, and international newspapers, medical and scientific publications, and popular fiction writers all clamored to cover the ensuing“girl lovers” murder trial. Lisa Duggan locates in this sensationalized event the emergence of the lesbian in U.S. mass culture and shows how newly“modern” notions of normality and morality that arose from such cases still haunt and distort lesbian and gay politics to the present day.
Situating this story alongside simultaneously circulating lynching narratives (and its resistant versions, such as those of Memphis antilynching activist Ida B. Wells) Duggan reveals how stories of sex and violence were crucial to the development of American modernity. While careful to point out the differences between the public reigns of terror that led to many lynchings and the rarer instances of the murder of one woman by another privately motivated woman, Duggan asserts that dominant versions of both sets of stories contributed to the marginalization of African Americans and women while solidifying a distinctly white, male, heterosexual form of American citizenship. Having explored the role of turn-of-the-century print media—and in particular their tendency toward sensationalism—Duggan moves next to a review of sexology literature and to novels, most notably Radclyffe Hall’sThe Well of Loneliness.Sapphic Slashersconcludes with two appendices, one of which presents a detailed summary of Ward’s murder, the trial, and Mitchell’s eventual institutionalization. The other presents transcriptions of letters exchanged between the two women prior to the crime.
Combining cultural history, feminist and queer theory, narrative analysis, and compelling storytelling,Sapphic Slashersprovides the first history of the emergence of the lesbian in twentieth-century mass culture.


Rerations
< Sapphic Slashers: Sex, Violence, and American Modernity > < Stone Butch Blues: A Novel > < Fighting for American Manhood: How Gender Politics Provoked the Spanish-American and Philippine-American Wars (Yale Historical Publications Series) > < Intersex and Identity: The Contested Self > < Plessy v. Ferguson > freaks



< Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer > < GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary > < Sexing the Body: Gender Politics and the Construction of Sexuality > < A Critical Introduction to Queer Theory > < The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: An Introduction > < The Transgender Reader > Riki Wilchins




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