< My Husband Betty: Love, Sex, and Life with a Crossdresser >
< She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband >
< My Husband Wears My Clothes: Crossdressing from the Perspective of a Wife >
< Alice in Genderland: A Crossdresser Comes of Age >
< The Lazy Crossdresser >
< Head Over Heels: Wives Who Stay With Cross-Dressers and Transsexuals (Haworth Press Human Sexuality) >
Helen Boyd
price:$3.73
Seal Press
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Interesting but nothing much)  
(My Husband Betty)    
(Insight into male-to-female cross-dressing)   
(A lengthy exposition about the fears and problems associated with crossdressing...)  
(Transgenderism)     Being a Crossdresser, I purchased this book for my Wife to understand the concept of TG/Crossdressing and their life in General.
She read a few pages and looked unimpressed.I mean there was nothing special than what she already knew or I told her about.
When I tried to read through, I could success only for few more pages than her..
So.. loan it or rent it... its not a collectible for sure. In her book "My Husband Betty" Helen Boyd clears up a lot of misconceptions that crossdressing men have of themselves and their way of relating to women. It also clears up a lot of misconceptions that their female partners have of their man's crossdressing behaviour and their wishes. It also pulls no punches in revealing the depth of betrayal that a woman feels when she finds out about her husband's crossdressing later on in their relationship, when her husband should have been honest with her from the very beginning of their relationship. A brilliant book worth reading more than once. For those looking for an insight into male-to-female crossdressing, this is an excellent choice. While it is written from the basis of a wife's point of view, it encompasses far more information than a single person's viewpoint. Helen Boyd is founder of CDOD, an on-line meeting and discussion place for couples. In her position as moderator, she has thoroughly researched crossdressers, crossdressing, and their effect on marriages and families. While she is in a committed, monogamous, legally married relationship with her CD husband, Betty, she is also very aware of the stresses crossdressing can bring to a relationship. Helen's in-depth study of wives and girlfriends reactions to their CD partners is both interesting and surprising. Interesting, in that they vary so greatly. Surprising, in the degree of acceptance - and yes, pleasure - many find in their relationships. Helen stresses that keeping crossdressing a secret from ones own partner violates the trust required for a successful relationship. Where honest disclosure occurs early in the relationship, trust is strengthened. The potential partner can then enter the relationship with her eyes and heart open and the knowledge that her partner trusts her enough to disclose this "secret." Helen's book does not simply paint a pretty picture. Many wives, especially where their partner's crossdressing has been kept secret for years, lose their trust in him. What else has he been hiding? Does he really want to transition fully and become a woman? Some try to restrict or eliminate their husband's crossdressing, with the result that the relationship is severely damaged anyway. Some struggle with keeping this situation a secret from their friends and families, damaging those relationships as well. Many wonder if being attracted to a crossdresser makes them lesbian - still unacceptable in our generally homophobic society. The book includes sections on why men crossdress, why they can't stop, who their girlfriends and wives are, and how they cope. There are segments on how to make these relationships work which, like most relationships, require some accommodation from both parties and a lot of honest communication. One segment deals with the crossdresser's wife's greatest fear - that her husband may realize he is transsexual and needs to transition to a woman. Sexuality in crossdressing relationships earns its own chapter, as does a discussion of gender politics. Public awareness of the transsexual community is gaining ground as more and more TS come out and demand their civil rights. Acceptance is growing. Meanwhile, the crossdressers largely remain in the closet. The absence of "out" crossdressing leadership and political organization makes CD's acceptance unlikely. Crossdressers must be "Out, Loud, and Proud" to change hearts and minds. I found this book fascinating. As father to a male-to-female transsexual and an activist in the GLBT community, I have learned a great deal about transsexuals - but very little about crossdressers. "My Husband Betty" gave me a much broader base for understanding and supporting this segment of the transgender community.
As the author billed herself as someone who has accepted her husband's crossdressing, I purchased and read this book hoping to gain insight into how they negotiated successful techniques for dealing with both his and her needs in the context of a long-term committed relationship. Instead, I found over 200 pages of the author's unresolved anger and frustration regarding her marriage to a crossdresser, her husband's crossdressing habits, the CD and TG community in general, and society's refusal to accept those who openly crossdress. There were only passing references to what personal tools she and her husband have developed to make things work. And it's not clear that they have since she has now written a second book.
If you want to learn about the range of anger, fears, frustrations, problems, and confusion surrounding male to female crossdressing, this book will do the job nicely. The author has obviously spent a lot of time exploring these issues, and is quite intelligent in expressing her own analyses and lack of resolution concerniing many of them (even though she knew it was a key issue before her marriage and has spent several years since then dealing with a crossdressing partner). However, you will not find much helpful advice or useful details about how to cope and work together to make crossdressing work as part of a total marriage.
Also, this book is overly focused on the problems faced by wives of crossdressing men who want to go further by living openly as women, pursuing homosexuality, or changing their sex through surgery. The author has seen it all during her personal experiences, and expresses fear that her own husband may go "all the way" someday. While understandable from her own highly active crossdressing lifestyle and experiences, it seems at times that she wants to "scare straight" the men and women who engage in crossdressing at any level.
In short, this book is not aimed at providing useful advice to a couple where the husband needs crossdressing in the context of their mutual love, communication, and sex life at home (or the occasional "going out" experience). As the author admits, the knowledge base and literature concerning crossdressing comes from people who are relatively open about it in their lives and willing to discuss it in a public forum. Unfortunately for more private crossdressers and their wives, these are often the same people who tend to "go all the way" in making gender identity the whole focus of their lives. So there is not much in this book aimed at more "normal" folks who seek balanced lives that include crossdressing as a significant part of their relationship, but who also share many other interests and life goals that are commonly accepted by society. If you are wrestling with the idea of transgenderism, this book will provide insight and inspire you to deep thought about sexuality.
Author Helen Boyd is a happily married woman whose husband enjoys sharing her wardrobe—and she has written the first book on transgendered men to focus on their relationships and their female partners. Traditionally known as cross-dressers, transvestites, or drag queens, men like Helen’s husband are diverse and don’t always conform to stereotype. Many of the older transvestitesare socially conservative, deeply closeted, and devout churchgoers. Helen addresses every imaginable question concerning the reasons for behavior that still baffles not only "mental health professionals" but the practitioners themselves; the taxonomy of the transgendered and the distinct but overlapping societies of each group; coming out; bisexuality; and homophobia. The book features interviews with some very interesting people, all of whom struggle and love: dominatrix and her cross-dressing husband; a crossdressing Reiki master and his son; a woman who after dating one cross-dresser wanted to date others and met—and fell in love with—a transsexual instead; a woman whose husband promised her he was only a cross-dresser and later realized that he was transsexual. This is a book about relationships that will engage the reader, and Helen’s narrative is a powerful lens with which to examine our own notions of gender and equality. Rerations < My Husband Betty: Love, Sex, and Life with a Crossdresser >
< She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband >
< My Husband Wears My Clothes: Crossdressing from the Perspective of a Wife >
< Alice in Genderland: A Crossdresser Comes of Age >
< The Lazy Crossdresser >
freaks
< The Sublime and Spirited Voyage of Original Sin >
< Stranded >
< Suspect Passions >
< Justice for All >
< Blue Skies >
< Sanctuary >
Colette Moody
price:$5.10
Bold Strokes Books
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Who Says Women Bring Bad Luck to a Pirate Ship?)    
(Spirited indeed!)     In more ways than one, seamstress Celia Pierce brings good luck to the pirate ship `Original Sin.' Taken by surprise, Celia is captured by said pirates when her fiancée, the local doctor, hides in his back office. Looking for an adventure and a way out of her engagement, Celia almost gladly allows herself to be taken. On the ship, she mistakes Gayle, the captain's daughter, as his mistress. The two women tend to the ship's wounded after a bloody battle.
Becoming enamored by Gayle, the acting captain as her father heals, Celia is happy to follow the crew on adventure after adventure. That is, until her father comes looking for her and discovers what she's been up to.
The supporting cast for this book is unquestionably necessary for the quality of the plot. The pirates, Celia's fiancée and her father, and the gypsy who gets the adventure started - all are well-written and well-placed.
In short, Celia and Gayle are outstanding characters in a very creative setting. This, Moody's first book, is a winner. With a few more books under her belt, this reader predicts Moody will easily establish herself as one of the top authors in the genre.
Original Sin sparkles with a well-blended combination of wit, adventure, and steamy romance. With near comedic encounters and sharp laugh-out-loud banter bordered by rollicking fight scenes, this book is indeed a page turner begging you to pore through the chapters in quick succession. The protagonists Gayle and Celia were vividly brought to life and quite likeable, making me regret when I reached the last chapter, since it meant that I had to bid farewell to their exploits. This debut novel is a promising showcase for author Colette Moody, and I'm looking forward to her next body of work. The Gulf of Mexico, 1702: When pirates of the square-rigger Original Sin steal ashore to abduct a doctor to tend to their wounded, they end up settling for the doctor's attractive fiancée--Celia Pierce, the town seamstress.
Together with Gayle Malvern, daughter of the wounded pirate captain "Madman" Malvern, Celia becomes a reluctant participant in an unexpectedly thrilling journey through the Caribbean. For Gayle, Celia's presence is at first a welcome and shapely distraction, but as her attraction to the seamstress deepens, she realizes that Celia comes to mean more to her than is prudent. As Celia and Gayle navigate the perilous territories of gypsies, prostitutes, mercenaries, and slave traders, they forge a partnership born of necessity that Gayle soon hopes will veer away from insurmountable danger--and instead detour directly to her bed. Rerations < The Sublime and Spirited Voyage of Original Sin >
< Stranded >
< Suspect Passions >
< Justice for All >
< Blue Skies >
freaks
< Men's Lives (8th Edition) (MySearchLab Series) >
< Women, Men, and Society (MySearchLab Series) >
< Thinking About Women: Sociological Perspectives on Sex and Gender (8th Edition) (MySearchLab Series) >
< Race, Class, and Gender in the United States: An Integrated Study >
< Feminist Frontiers >
< Race, Class, and Gender in the United States >
Michael S. Kimmel,Michael A. Messner
price:$15.83
Bacon
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (SOC381)    
(Michael Kimmel is a pro-feminist , therefore has feminist agenda, don't trust his books)
("Look Inside")
(Kimmel and Messner: a critique of gender)    
(Which Men's Lives are they talking about?) I had this book for SOC381, Men and Masculinity.
great read, some of the articles are hard to read (just a tonne of quotes and statistics... no depth)
I reccomend it I have stumbled upon one of Michael Kimmel's articles regarding men's behaviors. I emailed him and asked some hard questions regarding his feministic attitudes. He could not answer any of my questions. For example, I asked him why he is so focusd on "correcting" men's behaviors when society and feminists and many women today view men as doofus, murderers, rapists, etc, as evidence by movies, commericals, TVs... Basically men are not respected while at the same time, women only programs are popping up all the time! Furthermore, I commented that in order to finetune men's "bad behaviors", one must also addresses women's attitudes toward men! He failed to answer and only ask me to be openminded and attend one of the women's courses and called me angry! It would be nice if when you are offered to "look inside" the book, the copy you are looking through is the edition that you are buying instead of one ten years older. This "look inside" option is not helpful if it is an old edition. While some reviewers seem to state that Kimmel and Messner are painting men in a particularly bad light, these reviews seem to miss the key points that the authors are trying to make: the problem is masculinity and the way men perform masculinity, not males themselves. Kimmel and Messner critique gender and all the stereotypes surrounding it to present a manual for understanding masculinity as a social construction. Some articles in this reader are less helpful than others but overall it is a great introduction to masculinity studies and I highly recommend it. The book presents a variety of men's voices while sadly leaving out men with disabilities and trans men. The book cities arenas of oppression and explains how men AND women contribute to a culture where oppressive masculinity is allowed to reign. Don't let the fact that this book is edited by two men fool you. This book treats white, heterosexual men as sadistic oppressors and is driven by a women's studies/feminist and sometimes Marxist agenda.
You can get the complete summary of the book from this quote contained in it: "Heterosexual men maintain their status by the oppression of gay men; middle-aged men can maintain their dominance over older and younger men; upper-class men can exploit working-class men,; and white men can enjoy priviledges at the expense of men of color."
(I am not sure here whether a middle aged gay man dominates a young heterosexual, but I digress...)
If you want to find a positive image of (non-gay) men it is not here.
Articles include (with a quote from each article):
Men on Rape , "Rape may be America's fastest growing violent crime; no one can be certain because it is not clear whether more rapes are being committed or reported." (uh, so therefore let's just assume it is true as a basis for the article...)
Getting Off on Feminism, "There has to be a difference between being straight and being a breeder. And breeding is just one of the many assumptions that our culture applies to male heterosexuality." (Written by a feminist male who is really much too worried about what all his feminist pals think of him)
Life Styles of Gay Husbands and Fathers, no quote. A balanced article about the experiences of males who figure out they're gay after being married and having children. This book has a very high gay to straight ratio in articles however that overstates the prevalence of homosexuality among men.
Fraternities and the College Rape Culture, "A rape culture is strengthened by rules that permit alcohol only at fraternity parties. Under this system, men control the parties and dominate the men as well as the women that attend." (This actually was an evenly balanced article that focused on how to structure organizations and events to reduce the potentiality of rape)
The Fathers' Rights Movement: Contradictions in Rhetoric and Practice, "Indeed, fathers want to play a role in their children's lives, but for most, that role is merely a continuation of their predivorce role of the traditional father who exercises his power and control." (the "but for most" helps the authors dismiss my anecdotal evidence of being a single parent. Note we can say "single mother" easily and understandably but "single father" requires explanation so we have to resort to "single parent".)
The grammatical errors in the quotes are from the book and are not typos.
Some articles use made up statistics, gross generalities, and outright distortions to make their point. Many of the articles are balanced in and of themselves but, taken as a whole collection in this book, present a distorted view of "Men's Lives."
This text is intended as a broad introduction to the many types of inequality– economics, status, political power, sex and gender, sexual orientation, race, and ethnicity– in U.S. society and in a global setting.Gender; Men; Masculinity; Work, Relationships; Sexuality.For anyone interested in understanding men and their roles in society. Rerations < Men's Lives (8th Edition) (MySearchLab Series) >
< Women, Men, and Society (MySearchLab Series) >
< Thinking About Women: Sociological Perspectives on Sex and Gender (8th Edition) (MySearchLab Series) >
< Race, Class, and Gender in the United States: An Integrated Study >
< Feminist Frontiers >
freaks
< GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary >
< Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity >
< Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer >
< Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us >
< Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity >
< Sexing the Body: Gender Politics and the Construction of Sexuality >
price:$5.42
Alyson Books
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Not Here Nor There)    
(AMAZING)    
(Gender Tripping)    
(fantastic)    
(mindblowing!!!!!!!)    Nestle, Joan (editor), Riki Wilkins (editor), Clare Howard (editor). "GenderQueer: Voices from Beyond the Sexual Binary", Alyson, 2002.
Not Here Nor There
Amos Lassen
"GenderQueer" is an anthology that looks at the gray area between genders. We learn here that gender is not a self-evident term and "genderqueers" are not always what they appear. The book is made up of 30 first person testimonies of those who are "genderqueer". The issue of gender identity has been a galvanizing force in the GLBT community of late and the questions go far beyond sexual identification as determined by biology. Three experts on gender, Nestle, Wilkins and Howard take us into that gray area and help us understand the possibilities of gender that have no limits. This is not a book to validate predetermined feelings about gender--it is an honest and deep look at gender with disturbing opinions and coarse language. The book goes beyond the usual discussion of the transgendered. The editors look at all kinds of people who are outside what is regarded as gender norms and show how complicated the issue is. Here is a deconstruction of gender and it gives a voice to those who live between male and female. The book looks at not only those who are transgendered nut also at the intersexed and transsexuals. All aspects of gender are touched upon and the book gives the GLBT community another dimension. The book is interesting--in fact, it is compelling and will probably change your mind about the way you look at gender. We are forced to muddle through our preconceived ideas about gender and sex and identity. It is a revelatory study that needs to be read.
this was one of the greatest books i have ever read. It was soo touching. With ever story i felt so at home reading it. I cried during one of the story's it really touched me i felt like someone was stalking my emotions and writing them down. Some stories where so funny and good. I couldn't stop reading it was addictive. My teacher borrowed it from me. although i have people in my class saying i was a freak for reading this book. it didn't matter to me(it bothered me a little for a day but i got over it) i felt comfortable reading my genderqueer book for everyone to see. A MUST READ!! Fascinating critters, slugs.
"True" hermaphrodites, each possess female and male reproductive organs. Although slugs can, and will, fertilize themselves, they prefer mating. Both mates lay eggs. Often in the process, "apophallation" occurs - that is, in order to disengage their sperm-producing organs, both slugs must undergo "castration." Starting out hermaphroditic, slugs default "female." Since slugs mate only once, it's a tidy arrangement. Baby slugs hatch independently and fend for themselves. Communists.
My daughter and I raised a clutch of eggs once. 55 of the little rice-sized goobers turned into slithering 6-inch mollusks. Big appetite for cucumbers and mushrooms. We took 'em to her kindergarten show 'n tell, put them all out on a big, wet plate, their eyeball stalks a-quivering. "EEEwwww!" groaned the gals. All the boys wigged, eyes-popping, challenged, upstaged. My little girl, ostensibly sugar and spice, was the class rebel hero. Now she's raising 9 rats. The neighborhood kids are impressed.
With a high-testosterone mom and a superfem dad, her parents, a gender-variant unity of opposites, often joke that we live the Munsters' life, two outcasts who produced, magically, a beautiful and socially normative Marilyn. Time (and puberty) will tell, however. I like to think normative will be an option by then; goth, hippie, punk, queer - imagine there's no genders, it's easy if you try.
Gender was bewildering to me "when I was a boy" - I thought I was in with the hopscotch girls 'til someone's older sister poured a cream soda on my head and told me to go - but soon I discovered Keith Richards' outfit on the cover of Satanic Majesties Request. It's no coincidence 1967 was the year of paisley, beads, long hair and flower power; what defied the draft better than fem? And, all these years later - consider the New York Dolls' reunion - rock and trans continue to crossfertilize, positively.
"Are you a man or a woman?"
"I'm Mick Jagger!"
Back to the garden.
After reading the dense, academic, postmodern Transgender Studies Reader (Stryker, Whittle), GenderQueer was a shock of pure pleasure!
Interesting ideologies, told personably, credibly, even forcefully through street-smart prose. Most essays are very short, and assume the readership has been around the block. Mercifully free of superstar surgery stories, GenderQueer troubles all TG hierarchies and identity politics. Men-horny lesbians and T-girls refusing to pass, and plenty inexplicable more: "It's a whole different generation" ["Disorderly Fashion"].
Smash.
A combination of fairytales ("Loving Outside Simple Lines"), tearjerkers ("Passing Realities," "Preadolescent Drag King"), horrorstories ("The A Train"), ravers ("World's Youngest"), mindbenders ("Wanting Men"), clarion calls ("Do It On The Dotted Line," "Transie," "Do I Dare?") and supertight essays by editor Riki Wilchins, GenderQueer is, to date, the latest word in the expanding, increasing visible TG universe.
Absolutely essential vitamins - and psychedelic, too. this book holds a great collection of people living outside the gender binary. few fall into the trap of political soapboxing and instead tell honest, beautiful stories. i'd recomend this over "from the inside out" by morty diamond if your looking for a well written and engaging book of writing by gender queers. this was an excellent book that completely blew my mind about what i previously thought i knew about gender, even about transgendered persons. it peaked and held my thirst for understanding, and though it is not all encompassing....it opens the door wide and then pushes you into the deep end frocing you to swim through all the preconceived ideas that we have always been taught about gender and sex roles and identities...every author should be commended for sharing their deeply personal and often touching stories...i highly recommend this book to any and everyone Perhaps more than any other issue, gender identity has galvanized the queer community in recent years. The questions go beyond the nature of male/female to a yet-to-be-traversed region that lies somewhere between and beyond biologically determined gender. In this groundbreaking anthology, three experts in gender studies and politics navigate around rigid, societally imposed concepts of two genders to discover and illuminate the limitless possibilities of identity. Thirty first-person accounts of gender construction, exploration, and questioning provide a groundwork for cultural discussion, political action, and even greater possibilities of autonomous gender choices. Noted scholar Joan Nestle is joined by internationally prominent gender warrior Riki Wilchins and historian Clare Howell to provide a societal, cultural, and political exploration of gender identity. Rerations < GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary >
< Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity >
< Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer >
< Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us >
< Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity >
freaks
< Zami A New Spelling of My Name: A New Spelling of My Name: A Biomythography (Crossing Press Feminist Series) >
< Stone Butch Blues: A Novel >
< Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches (Crossing Press Feminist Series) >
< Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic >
< Rubyfruit Jungle >
< Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit >
Geraldine Audre Lorde
price:$5.42
Crossing Press(1983-09-01)
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Great!)    
(What it was Like to be a Black Lesbian During the McCarthy Era)    
(Thank You)    
(I love women)   
(A Memorable Portrait of a Difficult Life Shaped By Zami)     It was in excellent condition and was shipped fast! I am very satisfied with this seller. I received this book within a few days. This memoir is of a black lesbian coming of age during the McCarthy era. Idealism, drugs, and trying to connect with others from the 'gay-girl' community are major themes. The book conveys the difficulty of being a minority - black, female and lesbian - and the impenetrable boundaries that are everywhere.
Audre Lorde also writes about her close relationships which appeared to be without substantive intimacy. Alcohol, drugs and mental illness often provided barriers to keep the sense of 'other' always in the forefront.
This is a fascinating book and an essential read for anyone interested in what it was like to be a minority during the McCarthy era. Amazon is a life saver. I needed this book in two days, after searching every barnes&noble and borders I could think of I went to amazon for help. There express one day shipping was a life saver. The shipping was costly but i learned my lesson for waiting until the last minute to get a book on my english syllabus. THANK YOU AMAZON for saving me in a crunch. I will diffently buy future books from your website =] I had been putting off this book for about 4 years and I finally read it. I was putting it off because I read the first chapter and it was dry. I have to tell you that it gets better down the road. Audre is not just talking about lesbianism, she is talking about being a woman and general. You can get good relationship advice by NOT following what she did in her relationships. I was exposed to lesbianism of 20-30 years ago in this book. It's so different now and for women (of all sexualities and colors) this book is for you.
The only problem is that the beginning drags but once you are pass...let's say page 40 or the younger years you will be fine. Concerned, scared, hopeful...these are the things I felt for Audre. If you can't deal with the beginning put it down. However, I want you to know...one day I am sure you will pick it up again; or you should. In "Zami: A New Spelling of My Name: A Biomythography," Audre Lorde writes that "[e]very woman I have ever loved has left her print upon me." Thus, "Zami" serves as a window into Lorde's experiences with other women-especially her mother-who informed and shaped her life from childhood into adulthood within the context of romantic links and friendships, especially during turbulent and conflicting periods in American history. For example, Lorde describes a difficult childhood at school and at home during the poverty ridden 1930s. Especially revealing about this moment in time is Lorde's fascination with her mother's strength and courage amidst racial discrimination-which, according to Lorde, went unnamed. As a result, she grew up in a world where difference was much more assumed rather than defined and interrogated.Consequently, this colored Lorde's world later as she formed special bonds with other women, which she termed "The Branded," a group of Lorde's "sisterhood of rebels," who used difference as a bond to challenge the status quo. This form of difference became pronounced, in addition to racial and gender difference, when sexuality became a threat during an intense anti-communist hysteria in the 1950s, which equated homosexuality with communist affiliation. In sum; to be black, female and queer in white McCarthy Amerika was a triple threat from which loneliness would emerge as a central factor plaguing Lorde's life. However, Lorde's romantic links and friendships with other women would shape her survival and leave an everlasting legacy for later generations of lesbian women, especially black lesbian women. Tragically, some of Lorde's experiences with love and friendships were shattered by loss and mourning. Nevertheless, the collected instances of intimacy with other women shaped her life as a queer woman of color defining "Zami," a term specifying women working in unison as lovers and/or friends. Lorde meticulously unfolds her narrative by using imagery and symbols as a way from which to tell her life story on an intimate level. The choice of words and images are compelling. For example, her trip to Mexico is described so vividly that I almost feel as I am there. Her description of New York gave me a sense of what life was like during a poverty ridden period in an urban setting. The description of clothes, faces, and bodies-especially within an erotic context-are remarkable. In sum, Lorde was a poet genius in her prose alongside her poetry. "Zami" is an excellent read for courses in Women's Studies, Women's History, Women's Autobiography, African American Studies, Queer Studies, Lesbian and Gay Studies, and ethnic studies. Lorde's self-named "biomythography" Rerations < Zami A New Spelling of My Name: A New Spelling of My Name: A Biomythography (Crossing Press Feminist Series) >
< Stone Butch Blues: A Novel >
< Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches (Crossing Press Feminist Series) >
< Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic >
< Rubyfruit Jungle >
freaks
< Fellow Travelers: A Novel >
< Call Me by Your Name: A Novel >
< Hotel de Dream: A New York Novel >
< The Indian Clerk: A Novel >
< Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You: A Novel >
< The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao >
Thomas Mallon
price:$8.50
Pantheon(2007-04-24)
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Multi-Genre Novel)    
(Wonderful)    
(Loved it!)    
(Fellow Travelers)    
(Haunting)     Mallon manages the task of creating a novel that cannot be pigeon-holed. It is at once historical-fiction, mystery/thriller,&love story. With the mastery of a great story-teller Mallon holds the reader spell-bound from the moment she picks up the novel, until the turning of the last page. With Joe McCarthy&Roy Cohn holding the country hostages of conscience and fear; the personal, and the private is political ammunition. Tim Laughlin and Hawk Fuller live a love that not only doesn't speak its name, but does not become a fully conscious thought in one of the lovers. The oppressive mood of the era is fully realized and only relieved in the literary device of flashback to remind us that we have moved into a more enlightened day. It also reminds us that we have a way to go before we can close the book on homophobia and other prejudice. Excellent novel. The period detail and attention to 1950s historical events is superb. Finely drawn and realistic characters. Highly recommended. Being a middle-aged, gay DC resident, I enjoyed the nostalgic perspective of reading about an era in which most homosexuals were closeted in Washington. Also, unlike some reviewers, I loved the minutiae of passing details to fully draw me into the time period. A very well written book. Thomas Mallon's history is superbly well researched, even down to phrases. His fictional characters apparently emerged from wide experience, even down to phrases. The combination is a perfect fit. There are ordinary people who are exquisitely beautiful in character, and there are drop-dead gorgeous people who are vultures with absolutely nothing to redeem them. That goes for both Mallon's historical and fictional characters. Their lives are blended in ways that never distort the history and ways that never miss the mark in populating the fiction. There's ambition that's despicable. There's romance that is exalting and heart-rending. Be ready to be cautious, if not downright afraid. Be ready to hurt as badly as you've ever hurt in your life. Be ready to fall back in time and relearn sad lessons. Be ready to apply the needed therapy to relive your way out of painful disappointment. Be ready to wonder how and why you could have loved and trusted so genuinely, so powerfully, and how or why you were deceived so terribly. Above all, you can be sure that this excursion into the past can be one of the most memorable, loving, painful, and helpful you have ever taken. Before I read this book, all I knew was that it took place in Washington D.C. during the 1950's, and that it involved men having affairs with each other. Needless to say, I drastically underestimated it. The book is really a tragic love story presented as historical fiction, but even more than that it explores what it's like for men who live a secret, double life, which leads to nothing but heartache. Tim Laughlin is the young, hero-worshipping innocent who is seduced--both sexually and emotionally--by the handsome and older Hawkins Fuller. Their clandestine relationship can be summed up in two lines; Tim: "I have to get over you." Hawkins: "Yes, you do." One man is hopelessly in love, while the other is unable to feel anything more than mere affection. The result is an imbalance which is very unsettling. Mallon is also a genius at creating characters so real you identify with what they're thinking and feeling. A third character, Mary Johnson, is friends with both men, and her own story is vividly painted and gives the book some balance. There are a lot of other characters, too many in fact for the average reader to keep up with (I would even suggest writing down who they are as each person is introduced). I can't help but wonder if this book might have limited appeal, because in some ways it's half soap opera, half political novel--and the political stuff can be kind of uninteresting at times. Still, it is superbly written, and the love story is absolutely heartbreaking.
From the highly acclaimed author ofBandboxandDewey Defeats Truman–a searing new historical novel about the competing claims of faith, love, and politics during the McCarthy era.
Washington, D.C., in the early 1950s: a world of bare-knuckled ideology, hard drinking, and secret dossiers, dominated by such outsized characters as Richard Nixon, Drew Pearson, Perle Mesta, and Joe McCarthy. Into this fevered city steps Timothy Laughlin, a recent Fordham graduate and devout Catholic eager to join the crusade against Communism. A chance encounter with a handsome, profligate State Department official, Hawkins Fuller, leads to Tim’s first job in D.C. and–after Fuller’s advances–his first love affair. Now, as McCarthy mounts an increasingly desperate bid for power and internal investigations focus on “sexual subversives” in the government, Tim and Fuller find it ever more dangerous to navigate their double lives.Drawn into a maelstrom of deceit and intrigue, and clinging to the friendship of a beautiful young woman named Mary Johnson, Tim struggles to reconcile his political convictions, his love for God, and his love for Fuller–an entanglement that will end in a stunning act of betrayal.
Moving between the Senate Office Building and the WashingtonEvening Star, the diplomatic world of Foggy Bottom and NATO’s front line in Europe,Fellow Travelersis energized by high political drama, unexpected humor, and genuine heartbreak. It is Thomas Mallon’s most accomplished and daring novel to date. Rerations < Fellow Travelers: A Novel >
< Call Me by Your Name: A Novel >
< Hotel de Dream: A New York Novel >
< The Indian Clerk: A Novel >
< Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You: A Novel >
freaks
< Justice in the Shadows >
< In Pursuit of Justice >
< Justice Served >
< Shield of Justice >
< A Matter of Trust >
< Justice for All >
Radclyffe
price:$15.95
Bold Strokes Books
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (One of the finest)    
(Justice in the Shadows)    
(Justice in the Shadows)    
(Love this whole series!)    
(Justice Series Prevails)     Well here we are involved in a mystery crime that brings all of characters of Sloan, Michael, Rebecca, Sandy, and the rest of the crew back into the world of child pornography and more. They need all of their considerably talents to get closer to what or who they are after. More mayhem more drama and more of the pieces of a puzzle that Rebecca cannot get a handle on.
Where will it lead them? Hopefully a few steps closer to Justice. I have read all of Radclyffe's books and they have never disappointed me. This one was exciting and a great love story. I enjoy reading all of Radclyffe's books. Excellent story and strong characters. Another hit by Radclyffe. This series needs to be made into a movie. I would certainly be in line to see it! Det. Sgt. Frye and Dr. Rawling are joined by cyber gurus Sloan&Jason/Jasmin plus their significant others Michael&Sarah from the Trust Series. Officer Dell Mitchell joins the team.
Will they find the porn ring? Who killed Frye's partner, Jeff.
You know this is gonna be hot just from the cast of characters. This just sizzles. In a shadow world of secrets, lies, and hidden agendas, Detective Sergeant Rebecca Frye and her lover, Dr. Catherine Rawlings, join forces once again in the elusive search for justice.Rebecca is aided in her struggle to uncover a pornography ring and expose its connections to a traitor within the police department by a rag-tag team of dedicated cops and civilians: JT Sloan, a cybersleuth committed to avenging her lover’s devastating injury, who walks the fine line between justice and revenge; Dellon Mitchell, a young police officer who discovers an unforeseen talent for undercover work; and Sandy, a prostitute who develops an unexpected passion for cops. Ultimately, this secret investigation may risk not just their careers, but may cost one their life. A police procedural with a strong ensemble cast of lovers, partners, and friends that emphasizes the changing and challenging relationships between the characters as much as the action/intrigue. This series satisfies lovers of both nonstop action as well as heart-stopping romance. Rerations < Justice in the Shadows >
< In Pursuit of Justice >
< Justice Served >
< Shield of Justice >
< A Matter of Trust >
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< Souls Deep >
< Out Of My Mind >
< Under My Skin >
< Handyman >
< Never Let Go >
< The Professor's Secret Passion >
M. L. Rhodes
price:$1.20
Amber Quill Press, LLC(2008-08-20)
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (I liked it but wasn't entirely satisfied with the ending)   
(Delightful read)    
(Souls Deep by M.L. Rhodes)     Warning: This review might contain what some people consider SPOILERS.
Rating: 8/10
PROS: - Fascinating futuristic world. Lots of small details are thrown in unobtrusively. - Includes the impossible (or at least very unlikely/rare) scenario in which a guy has back-to-back orgasms with no recovery time--this is a feature of a fair number of the m/m romances I've read--but also contains a humorous, possibly plausible explanation for it. - HOT sex scenes. Wow. Even for Rhodes, whom I have discovered is consistently good in this area. - Satisfying resolution to the main conflict that pleasantly surprised me. In fact, I liked it a lot.
CON: - The biggest problem with this story is that the ending is missing something rather big. It has a typically happy ending, but there's an element that comes up in all stories of this nature that is usually resolved one way or another but is left absolutely untouched at the end of this story. As a result, there's a degree of uncertainty that kept me from being entirely satisfied with the conclusion. Jarrah and Griffin are compelling characters who both have a need to find someone to love and who loves them. Both have been betrayed in their past and are very unhappy with their current lives. The way they find each other and after a short interlude find each other again is so heartwarming, you can't help feeling warm and fuzzy yourself.
The love scenes are hot and sensual, yet at the same time loving. A word about the spanking scene. I usually hate them. To me they always feel stilted and forced, never fit into the context and seem as if just put in the book because the writer felt they had to have one. This is not so in this story. It fits right in and is fun to read. I never thought I'd say that about a spanking but I really enjoyed it, :-).
This won't be the last story by M. L. Rhodes for me. If you enjoy novellas with a decent plot, hot scenes and deep emotions, "Souls Deep" is a good place to start. Griffin is a man on flight. His family wants him dead and he has no one and no where to go. He is young and smart but in an post apocaliptic world he is alone. And one night, in an alley, he is shot dead. Or he thinks so. But then Jarrah arrives to help him.
Jarrah is a vampire. A former doctor he cherishes the human life above all. And he hates himself to be a vampire. And like Griffin, he is alone.
Griffin is immediately drawn by the vampire, better by the man, although it is the first time he feels sexual desire for a man. But it is not a gay thing, it is the need of a lonely soul to share its feeling. And doesn't matter if this soul is of a man. Love is above the gender.
A very beautiful novel, very intimate and close: for the most part shared between the two characters, it has also very well written sex scenes.
As a child, Griffin Hilliard's special abilities were attributed to an overactive imagination. But by adulthood, his psychic talents were so strong he'd become a threat to his politically powerful family. To protect their dirty little secrets, they arranged an "accident" for him. He survived, but now he lives on the run, only one step ahead of his family's hired assassins.Until one night, when he's finally caught... His life is saved by a mysterious man named Jarrah. Griffin senses a dangerous, primal undercurrent in the stranger--as if he's not quite human. Yet Griffin's inexplicably drawn to him. It could be the emotional pain he suspects his rescuer hides. But Griffin fears the real reason is more disturbing--Jarrah stirs a powerful longing in him that goes against everything Griffin's ever believed about himself. As the assassins close in once again, and his rescuer reveals himself for what he really is, Griffin's torn between running, as he's done his whole life, or standing up to face his past...and his own soul-deep desires... Genres: Gay / Dark Fantasy / Vampire / Action / Adventure / BDSM / Paranormal / Psychic Phenomena / Science Fiction / Futuristic / Suspense / Thriller Rerations < Souls Deep >
< Out Of My Mind >
< Under My Skin >
< Handyman >
< Never Let Go >
freaks
< Gender Knot Revised Ed: Unraveling Our Patriarchal Legacy >
< Privilege, Power, and Difference >
< Same Difference: How Gender Myths Are Hurting Our Relationships, Our Children, and Our Jobs >
< The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and and How All Men Can Help >
< The Sociology of Gender: A Brief Introduction >
< Egalia's Daughters: A Satire of the Sexes >
Allan Johnson
price:$2.50
Temple University Press
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (I recommended it to all of my friends.)    
(great.)    
(Good, only one complaint.)    
(Exceptional!)    
(who's to blame?)     This is an excellent book, especially for those not terribly familiar with how social systems work. Great starting point for coming to terms with the reality of our Patriarchy!
allan johnson is insightful, honest, and aware of gener issues. his book is interesting and eye-opening. it's a great, informative read that makes you think. Insightful in every aspect you can think of, just read the other reviews. Only one complaint: Johnson does a poor job of categorizing various types of feminism. There is a chapter on feminism in which he compares different approaches women have taken to understanding and acting upon their lower status in society. This is both a necessary and extremely difficult task. It is necessary because not all efforts that call themselves "pro-woman" are actually working toward ending patriarchy; some are so caught up in the system that they are actually perpetuating it, and it is important to highlight that fact. (Just like in the case of various men's movements). For instance, Johnson (rightfully!) comes down hard on Deborah Tannen's work ("Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"-- give me a break). But this sort of classification is also very difficult because there aren't really clear-cut separations between some flavors of feminism. It is easy to over fragment the movement, defining "eco-feminism", "radical feminism", "difference feminism", "Marxist feminism" and on and on. Johnson, probably aware of this, goes too far to the other extreme: he defines only "liberal feminism" and "radical feminism." The problem is that liberal feminism--which he then criticizes as watered-down and ultimately ineffective--is far too broad a category. It seems to encompass just about every popular effort to bring pro-woman ideas out of academia and other intellectual circles. For instance, Johnson lumps Deborah Tannen together with Naomi Wolf in the "liberal feminist" category-- a problematic thing to do since Wolf has publicly denounced Tannen's ideas. Dr. Johnson tactfully, yet accurately describes the "elephant in the living room". We live in a world created and dominated by men and masculine rules and values, yet very few people acknowledge that many of the largest problems facing the world can be directly linked to this fact. It's a fascinating book. This is an excellent book because he does not enforce a man-hating policy. Instead, he addresses everyone who participates in the patriarchal society. So many men and women resist feminism because everyone's looking for the people to blame, and no one wants to feel guilty. He states simply that we are all to blame if we do not examine how we live our lives. I know now that even though i'm a woman, i too was to blame. Patriarchy is bigger than all of us, and to say that Johnson hates men or is self-loathing is ignorant and only goes to prove the point of his book. If you have the chance to see him speak--do so. It's worth it. The Gender Knot, Allan Johnson's response to the pain and confusion that men and women experience by living with gender inequality, explains what patriarchy is (and isn't), how it works, and what gets in the way of understanding and doing something about it. Johnson's simple yet powerful approach avoids the paralyzing trap of guilt, blame, anger, and defensive denial that often result from conversations about gender. He shows how we all participate in an oppressive system we didn't create and how each of us can contribute towards its dissolution. He argues persuasively that something much better is possible and that our individual choices matter more than we can ever know. Rerations < Gender Knot Revised Ed: Unraveling Our Patriarchal Legacy >
< Privilege, Power, and Difference >
< Same Difference: How Gender Myths Are Hurting Our Relationships, Our Children, and Our Jobs >
< The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and and How All Men Can Help >
< The Sociology of Gender: A Brief Introduction >
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< The Price of Salt >
< Strangers on a Train >
< The Glass Cell >
< The Well of Loneliness: A 1920s Classic of Lesbian Fiction >
< Rubyfruit Jungle >
< Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit >
Patricia Highsmith,W. W. Norton
price:$2.79
Co.
Usually ships in 24 hours customer 's review (Best book I've ever read)    
(Awsome Book Ever!!!!)    
(Good Novel, Strong Love Story)   
(The Price was Worth It)    
(A love story that's surprising --- for how good it is)     I read this book for the first time a year ago, not knowing beforehand that it was written in the early 1950s. The subject matter is very daring and intense. I'm not even referring to the lesbian part; I'm talking about the age gap. Also (spoiler, sorta), over 50 years later, there is still an issue with single women losing their children in divorce because of their sexuality (end spoiler.)
The Price of Salt is beautifully written, classy, unique and timeless in many regards. I love reading it. I frequently wish that Patricia Highsmith had produced more books like this one, but I guess why do that if you got it right the first go round? Once I started reading it, I cannot resist put down the book. Until I finished reading the book and felt relieve, because Therese finally able to live with Carol as what she wished the first time she met her at the Department Store. I recommend this book to whoever likes lesbian story.
Unlike Terry Castle of "The New Republic", I'm not convinced that Nabokov used Carol and Therese's trip in "The Price of Salt" as a template for the extended "vacation" that Humbert Humbert and Dolores Haze took in "Lolita". If he did, he expanded it in richness and depth about a thousand-fold. "The Price of Salt", while no "Lolita", is an interesting (and unusual) work in its own right. Carol and Therese meet in the toy section of the department store where the latter works; they embark on a friendship, and fall in love. Carol happens to be married (separated, to be exact). She also happens to have a young daughter. (Even today, one should be able to sense certain ethical issues rearing their ugly heads. Having said that, noone behaves as badly as Harge, Carol's narcissistic, winner-take-all husband.) It takes the two women quite awhile to sleep together, so those in search of quick, cheap thrills will undoubtably be disappointed. And when they finally do, Highsmith's prose drifts into the nebulous vagaries of poetry, reminding us that this was, indeed, written in the 1950's. The novel is, first and foremost, a love story. It is not in any way, shape, or form, a sex manual. While "The Price of Salt" didn't seize and possess me the way Jane Rule's "Desert of the Heart" did--which isn't all bad--I felt it gradually trickle into the parched nooks and crannies of my aging yet inquisitive mind. (And what lesbian, repressed or not, could turn these strange, mystifying pages without wanting, at least a little, to take Therese's place one night in one of those not-so-anonymous hotel rooms?) The ending, I have to say, is rather abrupt. It left me with the exasperating "That's it!?" sensation--you know the feeling. All and all, though, "The Price of Salt" is a solid novel featuring a strong love story, made even more compelling because of the taboo nature of homosexuality at the time. I love Patricia Highsmith with her sadistic view of human nature. Her description of the character's boyfriend (his forehead reminding her of a whale and his hands looking like paws) was hilarious. She is an excellent writer who uses similes and metaphors well. Not to mention the unconventional story for that day and time! It's Christmas, and money's tight, so Therese Belivet does what any unemployed 19-year-old stage designer might --- she takes a temp job in the toy department of a Manhattan department store. Her days define dreary. The aging sales clerks seem "stricken with an everlasting exhaustion and terror." As for her customers, they're also desperate, but for a doll, any doll.
Then Mrs. H.F. Aird walks in.
Calm gray eyes. Blonde. Pale, thin ankles. Suede high heels. Her voice was "like her coat, rich and supple, and somehow full of secrets."
Therese has a boyfriend, who "talked like any of the people one saw in Village bars, young people who were supposed to be writers or actors, and who usually did nothing." After ten months, they aren't growing closer. This isn't love.
But Mrs. H. F. Aird --- what is that attraction?
Therese sends a card that says nothing much. But just sending it is provocative. Carol Aird, 32 and unhappily married and a mother, responds. And so it begins...
Patricia Highsmith, known for thrillers that show how easily evil can masquerade as goodness, wrote "The Price of Salt" right after Strangers on a Train. She was short of cash, so she took a job in a department store. A cool beauty walked in. After she left, Highsmith felt "cool and swimmy" in her head; that night, she wrote an eight-page outline. Her publisher had been pressing her for another suspense novel, but she said that she didn't regard "Strangers on a Train" as suspense --- and she considered this new plot, she has written, "simply a novel with an interesting story."
That is so disingenuous. This was the late 1940s and early 1950s, and even in wicked New York, Highsmith notes, "those were the days when people wanting to go to a certain bar got off the subway station before or after the convenient one, lest they be suspected of being homosexual." So to write a love story about two women --- could Highsmith have been completely surprised when Harper&Bros. rejected it?
The happy ending: A "specialty" press published "The Price of Salt" --- under the byline of "Claire Morgan" --- in paperback in 1952.
It sold a million copies.
It deserved to. In a swift 275 pages, Highsmith creates a world that's seems entirely plausible. First, there's the love story: the push-pull of the flirting, the heart-stopping looks, the thrill of a touch. Then there's the suspense aspect. Divorce wasn't no-fault anywhere in America in the early 1950s; it was a time of private detectives and blame. And so, when Carol and Therese take a trip, they're not alone --- Mr. Aird's private eye follows. This is not a romance without consequences.
And, of course, there is the sex.
But do not think for a second that this book has appeal only to women who love women --- or men who get off on lesbian sex.
There is, in fact, almost no sex in the novel. This is not a book about Tab A and Slot B, and then Tab A being banished.
And that is its power. The book is about two women coming to terms with forbidden love --- about wanting to be together and having trouble saying how much they want that, and being scared and having misunderstandings. It's got all the stuff of a love story between heterosexuals. Just with higher stakes. And an ending that's surprising...
"I never wrote another book like this," Highsmith said.
Well, you never read one like this.
Now recognized as a masterwork, the scandalous novel that anticipated Nabokov'sLolita."I have long had a theory that Nabokov knewThe Price of Saltand modeled the climactic cross-country car chase inLolitaon Therese and Carol's frenzied bid for freedom," writes Terry Castle inThe New Republicabout this novel, arguably Patricia Highsmith's finest, first published in 1952 under the pseudonym Clare Morgan. Soon to be a new film,The Price of Salttells the riveting story of Therese Belivet, a stage designer trapped in a department-store day job, whose salvation arrives one day in the form of Carol Aird, an alluring suburban housewife in the throes of a divorce. They fall in love and set out across the United States, pursued by a private investigator who eventually blackmails Carol into a choice between her daughter and her lover. With this reissue,The Price of Saltmay finally be recognized as a major twentieth-century American novel. Rerations < The Price of Salt >
< Strangers on a Train >
< The Glass Cell >
< The Well of Loneliness: A 1920s Classic of Lesbian Fiction >
< Rubyfruit Jungle >
freaks
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